Staying in My Window

A trauma-informed worksheet for noticing signs of being too activated, too shut down or in a manageable zone, with personal strategies to return to the middle.

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Primary profession
Psychologists
Client group
Adolescents and adults, including people with trauma histories, in treatment.
Practice setting
Psychology sessions, as part of stabilisation and regulation skills.
Format
Printable worksheets
Details
A4 PDF, printable
Pages
2
Editable version
Word (.docx), for Plus members
Demographics
Teens, Adults
Age groups
Adolescents, Adults
Access
Plus members
Resource code
PP-PSY-034
Version
1.0

Higher-risk topic: use this resource only within your training, supervision and organisational procedures.

About this resource

Most people have a zone where they can think, feel and respond well. Stress can push us above it, into feeling panicky or angry, or below it, into feeling numb or shut down. This worksheet helps clients notice their own signs in each zone and plan strategies to return to the middle.

Purpose

To help clients recognise their own arousal states and choose strategies to return to a manageable zone.

Who it is for

Primary profession: Psychologists. Also relevant for counsellors and therapists, youth workers, social workers.

Client or participant group: Adolescents and adults, including people with trauma histories, in treatment.

Practice setting: Psychology sessions, as part of stabilisation and regulation skills.

Suggested uses

  • Stabilisation and regulation work
  • Psychoeducation about arousal
  • Trauma-informed treatment
  • Planning coping strategies

Instructions for practitioners

  1. Introduce the idea gently, using the client's own language.
  2. Identify personal signs in each zone.
  3. Practise strategies for both too high and too low.
  4. Use within a trauma-informed treatment plan.

Instructions for clients or participants

  1. Write your signs in each zone.
  2. Choose strategies for too high and too low.
  3. Practise them when calm.

Accessibility considerations

Use colours, pictures or a visual scale.

Scope and limitations

An educational worksheet for use within treatment. It is not a trauma processing tool.

Higher-risk topic: use only within your training, supervision and organisational procedures.

Research basis

Understanding, naming and choosing strategies for emotions are central to emotion regulation; putting feelings into words and finer emotion distinctions are linked to better regulation. Trauma-informed practice prioritises safety, trust, choice, collaboration and empowerment, and avoids re-traumatising people.

What is included

A 2-page printable A4 PDF, including a practitioner notes page with the research basis (version 1.0).

Originality

Original Practitioner Plus content: wording, activity structure, layout and icons were created for this resource. No third-party worksheets, illustrations or text were reproduced. Reflects the widely used concept of an optimal arousal zone in trauma-informed practice.

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