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Calm Together: Visual Co-Regulation Support

A visual co-regulation tool with a choice strip the person can use to show what they need when distressed, plus a worker guide and a personal calm plan.

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Primary profession
Disability support workers
Client group
Children and adults with disability who benefit from visual supports when distressed, and their support workers.
Practice setting
Home, supported living, day programs and community settings.
Format
Practitioner and facilitator guides, Visual supports
Details
A4 PDF, printable
Pages
4
Editable version
Word (.docx), for Plus members
Demographics
Children, Teens, Adults
Age groups
All ages
Access
Free
Resource code
PP-DSW-006
Version
1.0

About this resource

When someone is distressed, words can be hard to process. This tool pairs a simple worker guide on co-regulation with a visual choice strip the person can point to, and a personal calm plan that records the person's early signs and what does and does not help them.

Purpose

To help workers support a person to regulate through calm, predictable support and visual choices.

Who it is for

Primary profession: Disability support workers. Also relevant for positive behaviour support practitioners, occupational therapists.

Client or participant group: Children and adults with disability who benefit from visual supports when distressed, and their support workers.

Practice setting: Home, supported living, day programs and community settings.

Suggested uses

  • Supporting a person through distress
  • Teaching the choice strip at calm times
  • Recording a person's calm plan for the team
  • Onboarding new workers to a person's needs

Instructions for practitioners

  1. Complete the calm plan with the person and people who know them well.
  2. Teach the choice strip when the person is calm.
  3. In distress, regulate yourself first, lower demands and offer the strip.
  4. Respect the person's choice and give time.
  5. Follow the person's behaviour support plan if they have one.

Instructions for clients or participants

  1. Point to what you need.
  2. Take your time.

Accessibility considerations

Personalise symbols, size and number of choices. Use photos of real items where symbols are not meaningful.

Scope and limitations

A general co-regulation support. It is not a behaviour support plan, does not recommend restrictive practices and does not replace guidance from the person's behaviour support practitioner or therapists.

Research basis

Children learn to self-regulate through warm, responsive co-regulation from adults and predictable environments. Understanding, naming and choosing strategies for emotions are central to emotion regulation; putting feelings into words and finer emotion distinctions are linked to better regulation. Visual schedules and other visual supports are established evidence-based practices for autistic children and young people, and are widely used with others who benefit from visual information.

What is included

A 4-page printable A4 PDF, including a practitioner notes page with the research basis (version 1.0).

Originality

Original Practitioner Plus content: wording, activity structure, layout and icons were created for this resource. No third-party worksheets, illustrations or text were reproduced. Symbols are original line drawings created for Practitioner Plus.

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